expectation from wife

It is really tough question for me. What I expect from my wife? I don’t know the exact answer. If I know something today, that does not going to be remain constant till life. we changes with time. Our nature, our expectations, our choice changes as we become mature. Life is itself a lesson for learning. Change is the nature of human being. Although my expectations may change, as I become mature, still I have some basics expectations, which I don’t think is going to be drastically changed during time. I was having a desire to find a beautiful and handsome girl of my height. I was thinking of the girl should be so that we can walk and talk to each other where ever I go. Why of mine height. I was thinking that, we can walk keeping hands in hands. No other intension.. Hahahahaha. I thought that, she should not be extremely beautiful in that case I was facing a lot of problem due to the other audience. With that type of extremely beautiful girl where ever you go people keep gazing on you and your wife (although in western country nobody bothers and nobody pay attention on you but still in India there is a lot of problem for middle society) and result is that you are not going to enjoy the moments with your wife. You are not feeling natural. Felling natural is the utter aim of my life. So I imagined a girl that should be beautiful but not extremely beautiful.Many times my mother said “ Beta gori ladki se saadi karma nahi to bahut dikkat hogi’. I asked to my mother, what problem is going to be happened. She replied naturally ‘wo to tumko baad me pata chalega jab tumhari beti hogi” meaning I will be facing a lot of problem in marriage of my daughter as it will be going to be unfair if I marriage with a unfair complexioned (swanli) girl. Generally it happens that if you and your wife are fair your child will be fair, if every thing goes right. I thought mother is saying correct thing. When ever I discussed this topic with my mother, she replied always marry with a beautiful (for my mother beautiful means a gori girl) girl. So that in the society we will have a good image. My mother can say to others that my BAHU is very beautiful. People will praise to my mother. Perhaps this is the why my mother wanted to be fair girl for me. I also having a clear cut notion that I should to marry with at least a beautiful girl but not extermly beautiful. i want to remain simple, i want to enjoy naturally.